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*sigh* Why is it every time I post I seem to put my foot in my mouth somehow...

Current Mood: drained

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your foot must be be salty, and oh so hard to resist. *evil laugh*

mmmm...foooooot.

(sorry just woke up, in one of those moods... you ok? *hug*)

Just buffy fandom and various peoples feelings getting hurt *sigh*

well i'm sure you didn't hurt anyones feelings on purpose, and if you did, then they deserved it.. ;)

Well it wasn't really me. But friends are arguing with one another. And I left comments and things and I don't know

just remember last year around this time... well, about a month, ago, i think people get crazy at the end of summer, we're all too damn bored. :(

I just get weird when there's a tense atmosphere. Ignore me

*cuddles you*

*cuddles back*

What have you done, sweetie? I always love your posts and I have never seen you have that horrible foot in mouth disease.

I don't know :/ Everyone just seems sad aad it makes me uncomfortable

Que paso? Do you want to talk about it?

On another note, if it helps...foot in mouth disease is one to which we all eventually succomb. Done it myself. Hurts like hell, the first time. After that, a spot of yoga helps to ease the leg cramp. MWAHAHAHAHAHA. (my bad; couldn't resist.)

Hee

*pets*

Foot in mouth sucks (and not in a good way either!) ::hugs::

*hugs back*

I haven't been offended by you yet, and I'm prety thin-skinned.

;D

*hugs*

*hugs back*

I have that down to an art form. :/

It amuses people around me so... *shrugs*

Ooh, I hope you didn't take me seriously about the Hurley/"Dude" stuff. And I know it's annoying when I say "Dude" all the time, so...yes. I hope it's not on account of me! *hugs*

Shakira commands you to dance!

My icon is dancing, is that enough? *g*

And nah, it's not really about that. It's more buffy stuff

And here I thought you were a cunt.

Sorry I had to do it.

Snerk

*eyes you*

*hugs*

It sucks, I know. I'm sorry that you have to get involved in it.

Getting involved in arguments always tends to depress me somehow. It's just awkward all round really *hugs back*

I guess it's true that you really need to have a thick skin in the fandom business. I think the thing that offended me the most was being accused of having a stupid TV ship in mind, when this issue is so much more than that crap to me.

Just really, try not to take things personally because when people are upset they tend to say things they don't mean.

But hey, you and I are kinda on opposite ends of the fandom and I think you're a sweetheart, so that should tell you something. :P

Thank you *big hugs*

One of my spuffy friends has never posted at Sparklies because she heard there was SMG dislike. So I agree it's not to do with ships why you would feel uncomfortable there, and I know you did register because you were wanting to talk with different parts of the fandom :)

Just talk with me, I will make you appreciate spuffy yet! :p

LMFAO.

I liked Spuffy in S5 and at the beginning of S6. But shhhh! Don't tell anyone. :P

["One of my spuffy friends has never posted at Sparklies because she heard there was SMG dislike. So I agree it's not to do with ships why you would feel uncomfortable there, and I know you did register because you were wanting to talk with different parts of the fandom :)"]

SMG dislike = not good. At ALL.

That was what the drama was over

A fight over SMG-bashing? Uh... what happened?

Well someone linked sparklies, and a friend of theres went there and took offense at a thread where people were expressing SMG dislike. And someone else posted in her LJ warning people away from Sparklies, and it caused some squabbling all round basically.

I... see. I do wish people would ease off on the SMG-bashing.

Yeah. I'm not really a fan of it, but y'know sometimes people don't like certain actors I guess :/

I haven't seen anything bad, but maybe I'm looking in the wrong places. I think I saw all posts defined the other day as being either

* pictures of your cats
* fandom
* stuff you regret posting pretty soon after.

Oh it's to do with sparklies and buffy fandom. It's in my friends LJ's

Oh dear. I've seen nothing like Buffy fandom for savagery before or since. I know people say HP ship wars are bad, but I've still not seen personal attacks as bad as some I saw in BTVS.

There were fandom wars in Dawsons's Creek I saw, but buffy fanom always seems so much more personal

I don't think the remarks by David Fury about women who write to serial killers helped.

lol!

Hey, it's Karla, just letting you know I'm friending you, if you want to friend me back, go ahead, if not that's cool too.

Aww, thank you. Friending you back of course :)

Fandom strife? Ouch. Uhh... try to not let it get to you. :) Though I know from experience that can be hard.

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