And I'm Janice, nice to meet you! (Comlodge is also Janice so I refer to myself there as The Other Janice. Not too many Janice's around, particularly with that spelling.)

(And re: infinitewhale I have just now asked them directly - with the caveat that they didn't have to confirm either way.) but we are so of one mind on so many issues, especially feminism (or lack thereof in the Buffyverse) that it's amazing.