To play devils advocate though the only reason Hank was so angry at Walt's phone call was because Jesse unknowingly led him to the RV, in seasons 1 and 2 he was definitely being dragged by Walt into dangerous situations, but by the time of season 3 it was Jesse's choice to start cooking again and he was the one who got Hank on his trail when he started manufacturing the blue meth and trading it for gas. I don't fault Walt for the 307 beating so much as I do with season 1 where Walt's lack of street smarts caused Jesse to be completely out of his depth with Tuco, whereas Walt was just trying to save their asses with the phone call in 307, although it was of corse unfair that Jesse was the one that suffered the beating from it

Honestly though it was really the 'everything I have ever cared about is gone. I have nothing, no one. Ever since I teamed up with the great Heisenberg' which I thought was too strong a sentiment I guess! Jesse seemed like he was mostly hurting over losing Jane in this early season 3 period and, from his knowledge, that had nothing to do with Walt. Yet I've seen sooo many videos using that as a voice-over with it seeming to be treated as some kind of universal truth that Walt has caused Jesse to lose everything and was responsible for all the bad choices in jesse's life, but with Jane and his family I'm not sure how big a difference it would have made if Walt wasn't around frankly. Jesse's family already seemed pretty done with him when he came to their door in 104, and well Jane's plan for them to run off to New Zealand with thousands of dollars didn't seem like it had a great life expectancy for either of them

But yeah I agree that Jesse's speech was more about lashing out from hurt at being cut out of the partnership. I think that Walt knew that too and felt genuinely bad, it was when Jesse reached the end of the monologue and started breaking down over his meth being called garbage that Walt seemed to know to respond to that and say that Jesse's was every bit as good as his