Elijah was who I was thinking of when I wrote that! For someone who was so desperate to see his family again at the end of season 2 that he threw away all sense of caution, his lack of reaction to Kol's death makes very little sense. I find the way he's play a bit cold sometimes though, he doesn't have much chemistry with Rebekah either and I'm never quite sold on their sibling bond. And lol I don't care so much about Finn, but it would be nice to get Kol back definitely :P

And don't even get me started on the confusing way that Elijah and Katherine have been handled. Okay so he fell for human Katherine when the original plan was to use her as a sacrifice for Klaus, and so thought that he might be able to come up with a plan to spare her life and still have Klaus use her in the sacrifice, BUT when Katherine found out about their plans for her and ran for her life it was Elijah who was hunting her down over the centuries. Trever was the one who protected Katherine and lost his head for it, yet in season four it seems to be presented as Elijah being the one to have protected Katherine and now needing to learn to trust her. What even! Katherine really gets a raw deal when you look at her very natural reactions to all of the shit she got put through as a human, that Klaus killed her entire family, yet the other characters acts like she's just evil for kicks. I said in someone elses LJ today that it's kind of ridiculous how Katherine is now to be killed by Elena for killing Jeremy in order to get the cure, yet Damon snapped the kid's neck right in front of Elena just because he was having a tantrum over Katherine at the time, and somehow moments like that never get held against him the same way that Katherine and Rebekah constantly have their sins dragged up over and over again